I would like to know how the CoC can be improved by allowing for exceptions for people with disabilities in online expression. As an, perhaps more easily identifiable example, I offer the right of people with the Tourette syndrome to access conferences. They, as you probably know, might curse.
I think you are correct here, though, really. But … I care to note that as far as I’ve been able to read up on Tony’s history online, quickly, these last few hours, he seems to me to only able to express himself in the negative, online.
Now, please know that I’ve met many, many scala community members these last few years, that expressed to me that Tony is the nicest person when you meet him face-to-face. I, and I stress this, never met the guy, and thus can not vow for him and his past, but he looks to me like other type of strangely feathered birds that I can observe and appriciate in this community, and he seems to be a person that loves functional programming.Tony is a person who teaches children, miners, often under ten years of age, how to program, functionally.
You, as in we, might not like how Tony expresses himself online, well, perhaps you, as in we, the moderator, with earned power and responsibility, could learn how to take a joke even when you don’t like the joke, and when the comedian keeps repeating it over and over and over and over till it irritates you to the point that you want to use your power. That would be the moment that you learn when to apply power in the future.
You learning something interacting with “the other side”.
It’s a good exercise to grow strong against verbal abuse, I know from unrequested experience. Also, it is healthy for the ego, learning to not trigger on emotion. Worse case Tony is consistent enough to earn your trust that he will express himself always as he has done in the past, I think we could argue? So even if you are afraid to trust him, you can trust him to express himself as Tony. Online, in the negative. In real life, he might be your best friend, and a great functional programmer. That’s all. Be diverse in what you include in your computer language community. Please. I beg you. Learn.