My life would be significantly less stressful if I didn’t understand the other side of the argument. I just don’t condone it.
I don’t condone the view that those who abuse others should be given a pass because they happen to be good at doing something useful. There’s 7.9 billion people on this planet, we’ll get along fine without them.
I don’t condone the view that those who support people with abhorrent beliefs should get a pass because they’re at least quieter about it. Those who support people who would do harm to me and mine are just as dangerous as the ones willing to do the deed themselves, their personal beliefs are surprisingly irrelevant to the harm they cause.
I think that’s an oversimplification. Nobody is asking for boycotting everyone who’s ever screwed up. That’s way different from boycotting an out and proud racist (how was this controversial in 2016?). That’s nowhere near asking @odersky to not drop a comment that appears to cut ties to a project because the maintainer declined to support a project headed by someone who has a history of abuse and troubling associations with white nationalists.
I can’t speak for @NthPortal , but generally this isn’t a good solution for most people because masking your identity online like that is basically “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” for the digital age, and the burden of policing your words and behaviors to avoid accidentally outing yourself, on penalty of getting dumped on by the people you’re trying to work with, is beyond exhausting. It’s a good idea, if you’ve never had to actually do it, and unfortunately there’s a lot of stuff like that.
Funny thing is that most people know this already, if they take a moment to think about it - because this is exactly the sort of burden people complain about when they start in on “woke culture” or “political correctness” or how they “can’t even talk to women anymore”. Having to take a minute to self-censor is easy, once. When it’s every minute, it gets exhausting really quick. Given the choice though, I can’t help but think it’s better to lift that burden from people simply existing online (like female devs), and put it on the people who just have to keep themselves from saying bigoted crap that’s always been offensive.
It’s not really slander when the trans community suffers violence at 4x the rate of the general population.